One of the most intimate and memorable moments is when a couple sees each other for the first time on their wedding day. In that instant, all the nervousness and anticipation melt away, and the emotion that remains is one that you’ll remember forever!
The “first look” is a tradition where the couple shares a private moment before the ceremony to see each other in their wedding attire for the first time. It's an opportunity to capture the beauty of the bride’s dress, the groom’s sharp tuxedo and, more importantly, the intense emotion in each other’s eyes. Here are five reasons why you should consider having a first look with your partner (and even a separate first look with mom or dad).
1. It Will Help Calm Your Nerves
A first look allows you to savor an intimate, magical moment without the distractions of the ceremony or reception. This quiet, private session helps ease any pre-wedding jitters, giving you the chance to relax and enjoy each other's company. It’s a perfect way to slow down the whirlwind of emotions and set a calm, joyful tone for the rest of the day. Plus, you’ll feel more relaxed and confident in your photos throughout the rest of the day.
2. Enjoy Some Alone Time
You’ll be surrounded by family and friends the entire day. But the first look is one of the few opportunities you’ll have to be alone with each other. It’s a moment to enjoy each other’s company before the whirlwind of greetings, congratulations, and group photos begin. It’s also an ideal time to capture your formal couple’s photos without distractions.
3. Look Your Best
One of the perks of having your first look before the ceremony is that you’re both at your freshest. Your hair is still perfect, your makeup is intact, and your attire is spotless. As the day goes on, there's always the chance that excitement, tears, or the bustle of the wedding will leave you less polished. A first look gives you the opportunity to capture stunning photos of you both looking your absolute best, right at the start of the day.
4. More Photographs!
Scheduling a first look allows you to get photos taken before the ceremony, leaving plenty of time for more pictures later, including during sunset. Weddings can be unpredictable; delays are inevitable and it’s easy to feel rushed when trying to capture every moment after the ceremony. By setting aside time for photos beforehand, you can avoid the stress of trying to squeeze everything into a narrow timeframe, ensuring you have more stunning photos to look back on.
5. Spend More Time with Family and Friends
By taking your formal photos earlier in the day, you free up time to actually enjoy the cocktail hour with your guests. With all (or most) of your photographs complete, you can relax and join in the celebration rather than feel like you're constantly being pulled away for pictures. This allows you to fully immerse yourself in the joy of the day, creating even more special memories with your loved ones.
Your wedding day will be filled with countless moments to capture—emotional glances, heartfelt laughter, and joyful tears. But the first look is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, so don’t let it slip by unnoticed.
